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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 18.06.2025 01:04

How does one succeed in life?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Do you remember one day, you put a deep smile on someone's face and made them very happy?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Why is Eric Clapton so roundly disliked among guitarists?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Do not set goals—set systems.

While emptying a house, have you ever seen something in it that blew your mind?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Why do US military soldiers/officers have a chest full of medal ribbons when they probably haven't been in a combat situation? Are the medals for attendance, good behaviour, or long service perhaps?

Does not procrastinate.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

What I need from you?

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Making more friends is a goal.

I am interested in gang stalking tactics. How do covert agents use street theater and false narratives to torment targeted individuals?

Procrastinates a lot.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Why do liberals refuse to define what a woman is and what does that mean for the future of feminism?

Ask yourself:

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

What’s wrong with anti-imperialism?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Can you explain the concept of an annulment of marriage in the Roman Catholic Church and its effects on a previous marriage?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

What are the differences between Republicans and Democrats in their views of the government's role in society? How do these differences impact policymaking?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

That's it for today.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

What is world history that not many people know about?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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Losing 20kg is a goal.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Why do older siblings always hate younger siblings?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

What happens in Sweden if you cannot pay a hospital debt you did not know about until recently but willing to pay when your finances improve?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.